Tuesday, August 14, 2012

The Power of Receiving


One of the things that always makes me smile is when my friend and soul sister Joy says this to me: "Tell yourself that you are open to receive all the blessings of the Universe." It's actually really simple and doesn't require much undue effort. The act of opening up to receive is quite powerful, though, in a world where we are taught that it is better to give, to be busy, to achieve--to operate from a place of action and doing, instead of being given permission to sit, be open, and accept.

I think it's fair to say that we find value in our ability to get things done. There is purpose in making a list and crossing things off, one by one, so that at the end of the day, we can sit back and revel in our ability to achieve results. What doesn't happen and isn't valued nearly so much is the converse idea: to sit back, contemplate, and accept--to receive. We can accomplish quite a bit by doing, but we can accomplish just as much by being, by choosing to receive all the gifts of the Universe. It's a natural duality. And it's one that I could use some practice on.

Elfin One passed along the book "The Power of Receiving" by Amanda Owen. In it, she outlines how we can achieve our goals not just by plodding energetically and full of productivity toward that goal, but by developing a system whereby we can be open to receiving it into our consciousness. It's a fascinating study of how to manifest what we want by using a different strategy than we might be used to. I'm still in the early part of the book, but am already floored by her simple but intuitive approach.

In the meantime, I'm going to practice being more open and more receptive. We'll see how it goes.

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I Dwell in Possibility

It's been a while, and I've completed a fascinating experiment: I'm horrible at merging my spirit life with my everyday. So much of creating this blog space was about incorporating a little bit of Spirit in the mundane details of my life, yet I've been neglecting to do any of it, including the blogging. I vow to do better.

The last time I posted, I was waiting to hear how my life was about to change. I spent the better part of spring and most of the beginning of summer waiting to hear about just that, and I did a terrible job of worrying about it instead of just trusting all would be well. I did get the scholarship and I did get into my counseling program, but I did harass the hell out of my two favorite witches, Cute Husband and my mom the entire time. I was awful about accepting that I couldn't be in control of the outcome. I worried. I paced. I chewed on the different outcomes...it was agonizing and I just couldn't stop. 

And of course it was all right. You'd think I'd have learned by now that it all would be fine. That I'd get what I need, and that the Universe would provide. And what I've learned, again, is that it would serve me well to try to keep my finger off the control panel and just let happen what's going to happen anyway. At no point in all these months did I trust in the process, usher in Spirit to lend a helping hand, or did I just settle into the flow. Apparently, I'm a very type A witch.

Luckily enough, there's always the chance for redemption, and I'm grateful that I have this space to come back to. Throughout these past months, I've come to understand that operating at high speed without giving myself over to a spiritual hit every now and then depletes me. I fill up my time with other things that don't feed me, and that's not helpful. The good thing is that there are endless possibilities for improvement.